How can someone justify what they want under certain circumstances?
Those "certain circumstances" meaning; when a male/female is attracted to a male/female and the roller coaster we willingly put ourselves on just to have the chance to be with them. The problem many people face is that, they put themselves on a ride (that usually ends in pain) when the could have saved themselves and not even went near the ride in the first place. Most of the time - tears, sweat, blood, etc is ALL that is achieved.
This is purely because of stereotypes (of course, there ARE exceptions... there always is). Stereotypes, regardless of if you think if you are in one or you think you're not in one - chances are - you're in a stereotype whether you like it or not, I prefer the term similar, after all NO ONE is unique. Even the people who realise there are stereotypes everywhere and strive so hard to not fit in - they all become a stereotype.
Anyway, what I am really trying to say is... I get annoyed at certain people. If you're a fat, lazy man who does nothing but blow his money away and squanders off everyone - how, HOW do you expect to get a beautiful, athletic, successful woman who works and has a nest full of money? If you're an anti-social guy who spends more time looking at computer screens fapping and trolling various websites, do you seriously think that 'hot' young girl down the street is going to go, "Hey, I have nothing in common with you! Let's get married/Let's have a quickie." Seriously? Remember, I did say there were exceptions. If you want someone who has a 'nice body', chances are, he/she would also like a "nice body". If you spend hours taking care of yourself, you want someone who looks presentable.
After all, the one thing we look for in a potential partner is ourselves. It's true. Even if you don't realise it now, you will realise it one day. Of course, there are exceptions. All in all, why bother chasing someone you know that it just won't happen? Maybe, because throughout this whole blog I have been reminding you that there is always exceptions and you may be that ONE exception. Well, when you're crying on your bedroom floor because you were rejected [again]. Don't look at me!
I don't know, this is just a rant. I am a bit angry towards people expecting things from another when they don't anything themselves.